The Muslim Women
»Being alone with a non-mahram woman.
»A woman traveling without a mahram
»Shaking hands with a non-mahram woman
»A woman wearing perfume when going out or passing by non-mahram men
»The Status of women in the Society.
>Being alone with a non-mahram woman.
Shaytan is always keen to tempt people and make them commit haraam deeds. For this reason, Allah warned us (interpretation of the meaning): “O you who believe! Follow not the footsteps of Shaytan. And whosoever follows the footsteps of Shaytan, then, verily he commands al-fahshaa‟ (indecency) and al-munkar (evil deeds) . . .” [al-Noor 24:21]
Shaytan runs through the veins of mankind like blood, and one of the ways in which he induces people to commit indecent acts is by leading a man to be alone with a non-mahram woman. Islam blocks this way by forbidding such conduct, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a (non-mahram) woman, but Shaytan will be the third among them.” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 3/474; see also Mishkaat al-Masaabeeh, 3118). Ibn „Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
“From this day on, no man should enter upon a woman whose husband is absent unless there is another man or two with him.” (Reported by Muslim, 4/1711). It is not permitted for a man to be alone in a house, room or car with a non-mahram woman, including his brother‟s wife or a servant. Similarly a female patient should not be alone with a doctor, and so on. Many people are careless about this matter, whether because they trust themselves or for some other reason, with the results that many commit indecent acts or take the steps that lead to them, which in turn results in the tragedies of confused lineage and illegitimate births.
>A woman travelling without a mahram
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “It is not permitted for the woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel one day‟s distance without the presence of a mahram.” (Reported by Muslim, 2/977). When a woman travels without a mahram, this encourages corrupt people to prey on her because of her weakness; at the very least, her honour will be harmed. This prohibition applies also to a woman travelling by plane, even if - as is often claimed - one mahram sees her off at one end and another mahram meets her at the other. Who is going to sit next to her during the journey? What if technical problems divert the plane to another airport, or the flight is delayed? What if...? There are too many stories of things that went wrong. For a person to be considered a mahram, he must meet four conditions: he should be a Muslim, over the age of puberty, of sound mind, and male.
Abu Sa‟eed al-Khudri said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: „No woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day should travel a distance of three days‟ journey or more unless her father, son, husband, brother or other mahram is with her.” (Reported by Muslim, 2/977).
>Shaking hands with a non-mahram woman This is one of the cases where incorrect social customs have taken precedence over the laws of Allah, to such an extent that if you try to talk to people and show them evidence that this is wrong, they will accuse you of being backward, having a complex, trying to break family ties, doubting their good intentions, etc. Shaking hands with female cousins, brothers‟ wives and uncles‟ wives is now easier than drinking water in our society, but if we look properly we will understand the seriousness of the matter. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle it would be better for him than touching a woman whom he is not permitted to touch.” (Reported by al-Tabaraani, 20/212; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 4921). There is no doubt that this is an act of Zinaa, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The eyes may commit Zinaa, the hands may commit Zinaa, the feet may commit Zinaa and the private parts may commit Zinaa." (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 1/412; see also Sahih al-Jaami', 4921). Is there anyone more pure in heart than Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)? Yet still he said, “I do not shake hands with women.” (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 6/357; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 7054, and al-Isaabah, 4/354, Daar al-Kitaab al-‟Arabi edition). And he said, "I do not touch the hands of women." (Reported by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 24/342; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 7054 and al-Isaabah, 4/354, Dar al-Kutub al-'Arabi edition). „Aa‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: “No, by Allah, the hand of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) never touched the hand of a (non-mahram) woman. He received bay‟ah (pledge of allegiance) from them by word only.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/489). Let them fear Allah, those people who threaten their pious wives with divorce if they do not shake hands with their brothers. We should also note that placing a barrier such as a piece of cloth is of no use; it is still haram to shake hands with a non-mahram woman.
>A woman wearing perfume when going out or passing by non-mahram men This practice is widespread nowadays, despite the stern warning of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), who said: “Any woman who applies perfume and then goes out among the people so that they could smell her fragrance is a zaaniyah (adulteress).” (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 4/418; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 105). Some women are very careless and take the matter too lightly, especially in front of drivers, shopkeepers, school porters, etc., even though the Sharee‟ah states very strictly that the woman who wears perfume must wash herself like a person must wash when in a state of janaanah (i.e., perform ghusl), if she wants to go out to the mosque. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Any woman who wears perfume then goes out to the mosque, so that the fragrance can be discerned, her prayers will not be accepted until she performs ghusl like the ghusl to be performed when in a state of janaabah.” (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 2/444; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 2703). We complain to Allah about the bukhoor and „ood (types of incense) used at weddings and women‟s parties before people leave, and the use of strong-smelling perfumes in market-places, means of transportation and mixed gatherings in the mosques even during the nights of Ramadan. Islam tells us that women‟s perfume should be that which has colour but little smell. We ask Allah not to despise us and not to punish righteous men and women for the deeds of foolish men and women. May He guide us all to the Straight Path.
Women are Precious (but yet they don't know)
Do you know that A woman is a flower vase of beauty
and fragrance. So smell her gently,
do not wrestle with her! - Imam Ali
RA
Women are like flowers. Do not put
on them responsibilities they can
not bear! - Imam Ali RA
Surely the men who submit and the
women who submit, and the
believing men and the believing
women, and the obeying men and
the obeying women, and the truthful
men and the truthful women, and
the patient men and the patient
women and the humble men and
the humble women, and the
almsgiving men and the almsgiving
women, and the fasting men and the
fasting women, and the men who
guard their private parts and the
women who guard, and the men
who remember Allah much and the
women who remember-A llah has
prepared, for them forgivenes s and
a mighty reward."(33:35)
Someone asked a wise man:
what’s the meaning of “Woman”?
He replied:“She is like a surface of glass, transparent that you can see inside.The more you wipe it gently, the more it will shine , and You can see Your reflection on it, as if the woman is preserving your image inside of her shyly.
If You break it one day, it will be so hard for you to collect its shattered pieces again. If you did collect them to stick them, it won’t be back to the way it was.
It will always be disfigured. Every time you pass your hand on the fracture zones “scars” You will hurt your hand.”
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»Being alone with a non-mahram woman.
»A woman traveling without a mahram
»Shaking hands with a non-mahram woman
»A woman wearing perfume when going out or passing by non-mahram men
»The Status of women in the Society.
>Being alone with a non-mahram woman.
Shaytan is always keen to tempt people and make them commit haraam deeds. For this reason, Allah warned us (interpretation of the meaning): “O you who believe! Follow not the footsteps of Shaytan. And whosoever follows the footsteps of Shaytan, then, verily he commands al-fahshaa‟ (indecency) and al-munkar (evil deeds) . . .” [al-Noor 24:21]
Shaytan runs through the veins of mankind like blood, and one of the ways in which he induces people to commit indecent acts is by leading a man to be alone with a non-mahram woman. Islam blocks this way by forbidding such conduct, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a (non-mahram) woman, but Shaytan will be the third among them.” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 3/474; see also Mishkaat al-Masaabeeh, 3118). Ibn „Umar (may Allah be pleased with him and his father) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
“From this day on, no man should enter upon a woman whose husband is absent unless there is another man or two with him.” (Reported by Muslim, 4/1711). It is not permitted for a man to be alone in a house, room or car with a non-mahram woman, including his brother‟s wife or a servant. Similarly a female patient should not be alone with a doctor, and so on. Many people are careless about this matter, whether because they trust themselves or for some other reason, with the results that many commit indecent acts or take the steps that lead to them, which in turn results in the tragedies of confused lineage and illegitimate births.
>A woman travelling without a mahram
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “It is not permitted for the woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel one day‟s distance without the presence of a mahram.” (Reported by Muslim, 2/977). When a woman travels without a mahram, this encourages corrupt people to prey on her because of her weakness; at the very least, her honour will be harmed. This prohibition applies also to a woman travelling by plane, even if - as is often claimed - one mahram sees her off at one end and another mahram meets her at the other. Who is going to sit next to her during the journey? What if technical problems divert the plane to another airport, or the flight is delayed? What if...? There are too many stories of things that went wrong. For a person to be considered a mahram, he must meet four conditions: he should be a Muslim, over the age of puberty, of sound mind, and male.
Abu Sa‟eed al-Khudri said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: „No woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day should travel a distance of three days‟ journey or more unless her father, son, husband, brother or other mahram is with her.” (Reported by Muslim, 2/977).
>Shaking hands with a non-mahram woman This is one of the cases where incorrect social customs have taken precedence over the laws of Allah, to such an extent that if you try to talk to people and show them evidence that this is wrong, they will accuse you of being backward, having a complex, trying to break family ties, doubting their good intentions, etc. Shaking hands with female cousins, brothers‟ wives and uncles‟ wives is now easier than drinking water in our society, but if we look properly we will understand the seriousness of the matter. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle it would be better for him than touching a woman whom he is not permitted to touch.” (Reported by al-Tabaraani, 20/212; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 4921). There is no doubt that this is an act of Zinaa, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The eyes may commit Zinaa, the hands may commit Zinaa, the feet may commit Zinaa and the private parts may commit Zinaa." (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 1/412; see also Sahih al-Jaami', 4921). Is there anyone more pure in heart than Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)? Yet still he said, “I do not shake hands with women.” (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 6/357; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 7054, and al-Isaabah, 4/354, Daar al-Kitaab al-‟Arabi edition). And he said, "I do not touch the hands of women." (Reported by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 24/342; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 7054 and al-Isaabah, 4/354, Dar al-Kutub al-'Arabi edition). „Aa‟ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: “No, by Allah, the hand of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) never touched the hand of a (non-mahram) woman. He received bay‟ah (pledge of allegiance) from them by word only.” (Reported by Muslim, 3/489). Let them fear Allah, those people who threaten their pious wives with divorce if they do not shake hands with their brothers. We should also note that placing a barrier such as a piece of cloth is of no use; it is still haram to shake hands with a non-mahram woman.
>A woman wearing perfume when going out or passing by non-mahram men This practice is widespread nowadays, despite the stern warning of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), who said: “Any woman who applies perfume and then goes out among the people so that they could smell her fragrance is a zaaniyah (adulteress).” (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 4/418; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 105). Some women are very careless and take the matter too lightly, especially in front of drivers, shopkeepers, school porters, etc., even though the Sharee‟ah states very strictly that the woman who wears perfume must wash herself like a person must wash when in a state of janaanah (i.e., perform ghusl), if she wants to go out to the mosque. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Any woman who wears perfume then goes out to the mosque, so that the fragrance can be discerned, her prayers will not be accepted until she performs ghusl like the ghusl to be performed when in a state of janaabah.” (Reported by Imam Ahmad, 2/444; see also Sahih al-Jaami‟, 2703). We complain to Allah about the bukhoor and „ood (types of incense) used at weddings and women‟s parties before people leave, and the use of strong-smelling perfumes in market-places, means of transportation and mixed gatherings in the mosques even during the nights of Ramadan. Islam tells us that women‟s perfume should be that which has colour but little smell. We ask Allah not to despise us and not to punish righteous men and women for the deeds of foolish men and women. May He guide us all to the Straight Path.
Women are Precious (but yet they don't know)
Do you know that A woman is a flower vase of beauty
and fragrance. So smell her gently,
do not wrestle with her! - Imam Ali
RA
Women are like flowers. Do not put
on them responsibilities they can
not bear! - Imam Ali RA
Surely the men who submit and the
women who submit, and the
believing men and the believing
women, and the obeying men and
the obeying women, and the truthful
men and the truthful women, and
the patient men and the patient
women and the humble men and
the humble women, and the
almsgiving men and the almsgiving
women, and the fasting men and the
fasting women, and the men who
guard their private parts and the
women who guard, and the men
who remember Allah much and the
women who remember-A llah has
prepared, for them forgivenes s and
a mighty reward."(33:35)
Someone asked a wise man:
what’s the meaning of “Woman”?
He replied:“She is like a surface of glass, transparent that you can see inside.The more you wipe it gently, the more it will shine , and You can see Your reflection on it, as if the woman is preserving your image inside of her shyly.
If You break it one day, it will be so hard for you to collect its shattered pieces again. If you did collect them to stick them, it won’t be back to the way it was.
It will always be disfigured. Every time you pass your hand on the fracture zones “scars” You will hurt your hand.”
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